SA

In my previous post, I did not intend to be accusatory. It was not intended to be an indictment of sexuality or a judgment of any lifestyle.

My intent was to admit only that there are aspects of my life which I have been unable to control. It has been a cycle that I have been unwilling to stop, and I have been unwilling to admit I had a problem.

Hell, I only recently became aware that sexuality and addictive behavior could be intertwined... and only more recently still did I realize that those definitions applied to what I was doing.

So, I admit that I have a problem now.

It's not your problem. And I'm not asking you to do anything about it—except to bear witness to what I am telling you in all honesty.

I've done significant damage to my primary relationship. In fact, I feel fortunate that I still have a primary relationship—I can't tell you. I'm in counseling and I'm going to keep going to the SA meetings.

Thanks for listening.