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April 18, 2004
The Craving
Has always been for love, acceptance and healing.
It is possible to get these from a relationship, but really it's a too-tall order. I've realized that I have to be able to give those things to myself before I can really give them to others. Otherwise I am just needy. A bottomless pit that can't be patched over.
I want so much for someone else to fix me, heal me.
But I know. It's my own damn fault.
[+] Posted by Sinner, who was transgressing at the time (April 18, 2004 1:14 AM) by revealing evil. [+]
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Perhaps true, but nothing says you have to go through it alone.
A very wise statement, Sir.
Western concepts of romantic love encourage us to believe that one person has to be everything to another within the bounds of a love relationship. This is utterly rediculous, impractical and an imposition of the rudest sort...
We are all needy, Souless. Don't be such a fascist with yourself! Just don't try to get everything you need from a single person. It's not possible.
damn that came out sounding harsh... I apologize; I meant to sound sensible.
:-(
It never hurts to be reminded. Thank you!