Real BDSM

Yeah, I practice BDSM in the bedroom. Mostly. I have a few friends in RL who know I am kinky. I don't talk with my parents about it. I prefer not to know about their sex life, and likewise I think sharing anything about mine would be creepy.

But for some reason, for some people, this disqualifies me from being a "true" BDSM practitioner.

But I ask you, is a gay man any less gay if he only sucks cock in the bedroom, if he doesn't talk about what he does with his parents or children, and if he tones it down at work?

I don't know. Maybe the homosexual community has angst like this, but I'm a breeder so I don't have any insight.

It just seems silly and misguided.

Real. Who are you to tell me what my real is?

Whatever.

I suppose I shouldn't let the discussion list trolls get to me.